“One Today”: The Inaugural Poem

I was taken by how Richard Blanco’s poem captured America’s hopes, landscape and people.

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One sun rose on us today, kindled over our shores,
peeking over the Smokies, greeting the faces
of the Great Lakes, spreading a simple truth
across the Great Plains, then charging across the Rockies.
One light, waking up rooftops, under each one, a story
told by our silent gestures moving behind windows.

My face, your face, millions of faces in morning’s mirrors,
each one yawning to life, crescendoing into our day:
pencil-yellow school buses, the rhythm of traffic lights,
fruit stands: apples, limes, and oranges arrayed like rainbows
begging our praise. Silver trucks heavy with oil or paper—
bricks or milk, teeming over highways alongside us,
on our way to clean tables, read ledgers, or save lives—
to teach geometry, or ring-up groceries as my mother did
for twenty years, so I could write this poem.

All of us as vital as the one light we move through,
the same light on blackboards with lessons for the day:
equations to solve, history to question, or atoms imagined,
the “I have a dream” we keep dreaming,
or the impossible vocabulary of sorrow that won’t explain
the empty desks of twenty children marked absent
today, and forever. Many prayers, but one light
breathing color into stained glass windows,
life into the faces of bronze statues, warmth
onto the steps of our museums and park benches
as mothers watch children slide into the day.

One ground. Our ground, rooting us to every stalk
of corn, every head of wheat sown by sweat
and hands, hands gleaning coal or planting windmills
in deserts and hilltops that keep us warm, hands
digging trenches, routing pipes and cables, hands
as worn as my father’s cutting sugarcane
so my brother and I could have books and shoes.

The dust of farms and deserts, cities and plains
mingled by one wind—our breath. Breathe. Hear it
through the day’s gorgeous din of honking cabs,
buses launching down avenues, the symphony
of footsteps, guitars, and screeching subways,
the unexpected song bird on your clothes line.

Hear: squeaky playground swings, trains whistling,
or whispers across café tables, Hear: the doors we open
for each other all day, saying: hello, shalom,
buon giorno, howdy, namaste, or buenos días
in the language my mother taught me—in every language
spoken into one wind carrying our lives
without prejudice, as these words break from my lips.

One sky: since the Appalachians and Sierras claimed
their majesty, and the Mississippi and Colorado worked
their way to the sea. Thank the work of our hands:
weaving steel into bridges, finishing one more report
for the boss on time, stitching another wound
or uniform, the first brush stroke on a portrait,
or the last floor on the Freedom Tower
jutting into a sky that yields to our resilience.

One sky, toward which we sometimes lift our eyes
tired from work: some days guessing at the weather
of our lives, some days giving thanks for a love
that loves you back, sometimes praising a mother
who knew how to give, or forgiving a father
who couldn’t give what you wanted.

We head home: through the gloss of rain or weight
of snow, or the plum blush of dusk, but always—home,
always under one sky, our sky. And always one moon
like a silent drum tapping on every rooftop
and every window, of one country—all of us—
facing the stars
hope—a new constellation
waiting for us to map it,
waiting for us to name it—together.

Real News or Real Housewives?

Real Housewives of Beverly HillsMy last Surviving Seattle post talked about quieting the noise – the volume, the clutter, the shrill voices that come at us constantly – the chatter from the radio, network and cable TV news, blogs, newspapers, magazines, documentary films, and above all internet websites. From the beginning of the information age the challenge has been to sort and select information, assess its value, and not be overwhelmed by its volume as we try to make effective use of it. The amount of information available is a luxury but also a challenge. How do we manage it as we strive to be our best selves? We can’t be at our personal best if we don’t manage the intake.

I no longer have the demands of a full time job and that gives me the luxury of free and unscheduled time. If there’s fresh snow at the pass I can grab my skis and jump in the car. If I want to go to a movie I can go at 4pm when the crowds are light and the traffic flows. If I want to write something I sit down and write without having to cram it in between work, dinner, and bed. But I like structure and work definitely gives the day structure.

Too much time gives us things like The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills or Jackass. Discipline gives us Op-Ed columnists like Thomas Friedman or David Brooks, which brings me to the point of this post – where do we go for news of current events and how often do we go there?Friedman_

The personal computer and the internet have changed the way we access information. Newspapers, once the primary source of most current events, are struggling to stay alive and to maintain their status as reliable generators and distributors of the news, But, they have lost audience share because readers can get the same news at no charge on their computers. Seattle is just one example of how the internet has changed the news landscape. For most of the 20th century the Seattle Times and the Post-Intelligencer competed to deliver the news to the local population. By the end of the century it had become financially difficult for the two papers to co-exist and a joint operating agreement was crafted to enable them to continue. That worked until the internet took a share of the pie and the P-I went out of business – like the Cleveland Plain Dealer and the San Francisco Examiner. Even the venerable New Orleans Times-Picayune has gone to three day a week distribution. I guess that’s how the free market works, but these changes remove reliable sources of investigative journalism and make it more difficult to assess the credibility of news sources.

None of our adult children takes a daily newspaper. They get their news via the internet or from network or cable TV. It is definitely a way to filter the news but it’s someone else’s filter. I look at internet sites when I’m not at home, but my normal day begins with the New York Times (Marilynn takes the Seattle Times) and CBS Morning News with Charlie Rose and Nora O’Donnell and by 9 o’clock I have looked through all sections of the paper and heard breaking news from two reliable news anchors. During the day I might check headlines at The Huffington Post or CNN, maybe even Fox News to see what the enemy is saying, but I try to limit my time at any one of these sites. Marilynn listens to Rush Limbaugh in the car. I can’t do it, but it is a noise option.

What you miss when you go to the internet are the small articles on the inside pages of the paper – the local news, the obituaries, the theater and book reviews, the articles you notice as you turn the pages. I think it’s worth keeping these things in mind, and it’s why I subscribe to two newspapers and several magazines. If we don’t support them they will disappear and with them the investigative reporting that uncovers the stories behind the stories.

There is good news coming from the TV side however. With TiVo, On Demand and Direct TV we can be selective about what we watch and when we watch it. We don’t have to stay up until midnight to see the late night shows and we don’t have to be home at 2pm to watch Charlie Rose interview a world class economist. I love TiVo and know that I am making better choices about content because I use it. Here’s to making good choices and becoming a well informed citizen.

Real News not Real Housewives.

Quiet the Noise, PLEASE!

Stephen King On WritingIn The Republic, Plato says that “the virtue of a thing is that state or condition that enables it to perform its function well.” The virtue of a knife is its sharpness. The virtue of a racehorse is its speed on the track. Lately, I’ve been asking myself about how to find and maintain that Platonic ideal. Whether you believe in a higher power or just want to live the good life the question is always lurking around the edges of consciousness.

Last year I wrote about leaving the US for Vietnam during the Republican primary debates and how good it felt to be out of the seemingly endless loop of right-wing one-upmanship delivered by Romney, Gingrich, Santorum, Perry, Bachman, Cain, and Paul on the nightly news cycle. In Vietnam I was free to tap into it by reading the International Herald Tribune or looking on the web but it didn’t dominate my connection to world news. That changed when we returned to the US in the middle of the Presidential campaign and were deluged with super-pacs, candidate ads and sound bites from Romney, Ryan, Obama, Biden and all the local pols for the next five months. After the election it was the Fiscal Cliff and now it’s the Debt Ceiling and Sequestration. ENOUGH ALREADY! I sense that the republic is in danger, but I also sense that it is durable enough to survive in spite of the blockheads in Congress. Stop talking and do something.

I could be happily well informed by watching Charlie Rose and Nora O’Donnell (CBS This Morning) five mornings a week and let the rest of the chaff fall away. I confess to reading the NY Times and some magazines too, but most of it just adds to the noise problem. It takes discipline to cull and lower the level of competing voices. I haven’t mustered enough discipline to do it yet but I’m working on it.

If Plato is right, I need to find the state or condition that enables me to perform my function well (whatever that function is). I’m trying but it’s not easy. There is so much noise coming from my TV, radio, iPod, email, Facebook, LinkedIn, laptop, iPad, and iPhone that I’m past the saturation point and find it really, really, hard to concentrate on finding the calm center where things get done. What I know now is that the interference is all outside noise. It’s not the noise that keeps me awake at night thinking creatively or about things I need to do in the morning. It’s noise that can be turned off with a switch. And when it’s turned off I can go inside where the good things happen. Turn off the TV. Look at and answer email once a day. Make a task list and a schedule. Be flexible but focus, focus, focus.

I should have started thinking about this 60 years ago. Approaching death really helps you focus. When I was young I was swept along by the life force. I was thinking short term. What’s up next? What will I do? What will keep me juiced up. Life was about experience, not reflection. In those days the noise was coming from inside my head. Now I need to quiet the outside voices. My favorite grandson, Benny, says “NO, GO AWAY” to quiet the voices he doesn’t want to hear. I need to adopt Benny’s dictum.

My idols are those writers, singers, film makers and thinkers who have found ways to quiet the noise and pump out the product. Here’s to Stephen King. Except for On Writing, I’ve never been able to get through his books, but his focus and output speak volumes about his ability to shut out the noise.

Who Will I Be In 10 Years?

SAM with Lucie and Ben
Yesterday KUOW’s All Things Considered had a feature called You Can’t See It But You’ll Be A Different Person In 10 Years.  http://www.kuow.org/post/you-cant-see-it-youll-be-different-person-10-years . I’m sure other listeners had the same reaction I did. Can that be true? Can I marshal any evidence to refute the claim? The theory underlying the study is that most of us believe that we, as adults, are pretty much established as personalities and that it is unlikely that we will change much in the future.  I certainly believe that, and so did the Harvard researchers who conducted the study, but the evidence they gathered showed that people continue to change in unanticipated ways and that although we think we are the same as we were in the past we are not the same people we were 10 years ago and we are unlikely to be the same as we are now 10 years in the future.

I can generalize about some changes in my life; I don’t have a paid position now, so I have more time to pursue outside interests; I’m not as fast or strong as I used to be, I have less hair on my head and more in my nose and ears, and I’ve shifted my aerobic focus from running to biking and swimming. I also have 4 grandchildren and 6 step-grandchildren, all but 2 of whom are new in the last 10 years. So, now I have grandparent days. That’s a big change for me.

Yesterday Marilynn and I had a grandparent day. We were called to duty when Heidi, who works at home, had a deadline and needed parenting relief for a few hours. One of the good things about not punching a clock or going to an office is that we can respond to a call like that. And – we adore these two kids – Lucie (5) and Ben (almost 3). It’s not a burden to spend time with these guys. Here’s Lucie:
Lucie at VPC 2
See what I mean?

I wasn’t close to my grandparents. I hardly knew them. They lived 1000 miles away. That’s true for most of my own grandchildren, but Ben and Lucie are right here and I love figuring out how to amuse and spoil them.

Yesterday we started out at Starbucks – it’s important to get a little hot chocolate and sugary scone in them for fuel. They both love S’Buck’s Petite Vanilla Scones, so we pumped them up with a couple each and fortified ourselves with double lattes to start the day.

Check out Benny too. Benny loves his Opa and MeMe – and it’s mutual. Benny at VPC

I wasn’t a traditional parent. As a Pan Am pilot and then a restaurateur I was away from home as much as I was there, but I always thought the advantages we provided – living in Germany for 6 years, world travel, growing up in a ski town in rural Idaho with creative and athletic friends – made up for some of the disadvantages. It may not have been an ideal family situation, but I still think it was a good one. I do remember my daughter, Diana, at one point saying “Couldn’t we just be a normal family?” I never knew what she meant, because I grew up in a normal family and hated it. I never wanted to be normal. I wanted all the adventure I could get. So, adventure in all of its forms is what I hope to give to my grandchildren – art, sport, outdoors, culture, and food. Let them choose their favorites but expose them to everything.

Yesterday, after the Starbucks adventure, we took them to the Seattle Art Museum where the featured exhibit is the work of women artists. I wrote about the exhibit in an earlier blog post, Seasonal Changes and the Art Walk.  The person at the membership desk reminded me that the show contained “mature content,” but the occasional nude is not disturbing and other more explicit content is easily avoided. I did reflect on the fact that most of the graphic pornographic and S & M content in modern art is generated by men and this was a show about women artists.

We wandered the floors of SAM for an hour or so and ended up in the playroom on the 3rd floor where we hung out and built some things with blocks before folding up and heading for lunch at the Volunteer Park Café.  VPC is owned by Ericka Burke, a friend of ours, and it’s a chaotic lunch scene with a big communal table in the center of the room. We found seats and ordered lunch, and while we waited Benny and Lucie wandered around looking at the food cases and other diners. They are well mannered as well as beautiful, and their wandering didn’t bother anyone. When the food came they sat down and picked at it but didn’t go ballistic because it wasn’t chicken nuggets or whatever else they might have wanted. These two are well trained and have eaten at the table with adults since they could actually sit there. God bless.

After lunch we went back to our place where we ALL took a nap. There is symmetry here – both young and old like to take naps. It’s a very good thing.

In the late afternoon we dropped them off at home and headed downtown to hear two young soloists perform Rachmaninoff’s 1st and 2nd piano concertos. The perfect end to a perfect grandparent day. I don’t know who I will be in 10 years, but I hope that Ben and Lucie are still in my life and we can have another perfect grandparent day with MeMe.

Riding the Year-End Wave

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I love this picture, but not because I’m a surfer; I like the wave as a metaphor for the rush of excitement that comes as the New Year approaches. It’s about riding the wave of good food, just released movies, new books, special events, NFL playoffs, coming attractions, and all the good things that happen this time of year. It’s about friends and family and it’s a roller coaster ride as we try to fit in all the opportunities and obligations.

In October I begin to anticipate the year-end movies that squeeze in under the wire for Oscar consideration. It’s an exciting challenge, when they finally arrive, to see all the good ones and find the surprises. In the last month I’ve managed to see Anna Karenina, Lincoln, Life of Pi, Argo, Silver Linings Playbook, Hyde Park on Hudson and A Late Quartet. Of all of them A Late Quartet and Argo stand out more than the BIG pictures. But, I still haven’t seen Promised Land, Zero Dark Thirty, Rust and Bone, and Amour so there’s a lot to look forward to. I’m not very interested in the over-hyped Les Miserables or Django Unchained, but I could be persuaded when things slow down in January. For me, musicals are magic on the stage but usually flawed when they hit the big screen, and I’ve never understood the attraction of Tarantino’s violence besotted movies. But, Tarantino aside, I do love the adrenaline rush of the year-end films.

Then there are books – usually Christmas presents – but also impulse purchases that come with shopping for other people’s presents. I have a huge pile of them beside my chair in the living room. My daughter gave me a book called Those Who Have Borne The Battle, by James Wright, about how America has let down its veterans after every war from WWI to the present. I didn’t know about the book but after working with vets in Vietnam for the last three years it’s a problem I’ve seen and heard evidence of first hand. It was a thoughtful gift and one that I will read with interest. In the same pile is the catalog from the George Bellows exhibit which Marilynn and I saw in New York last week. Also on the pile is Best American Short Stories of 2012 edited by Tom Perrotta, Thomas Jefferson: The Art of Power by Jon Meacham, Red Sorghum, a novel by Nobel Laureate Mo Yan, and others. Too many books, too little time.

And then there is the food problem… Parties. Family gatherings. Harry and David. Salted caramels. Egg Nog. Chips and dip. Champagne… and leftovers. 5lbs minimum even if you keep working out. It can’t be helped and it’s great while it’s going on, so give in now and recover in January.

I’m not a big football fan, but this time of year as the winners are separated from the losers I begin to get interested – especially if the Seahawks are in the race. And, they are… Yesterday I gave up reading and movies and watched a nail biter between the Seahawks and Rams with some good friends. The game was great (the Seahawks won a squeaker) but sharing the day with friends was the better part. I have to remind myself to slow down and enjoy the important things.

It’s impossible to do everything, but one of the most refreshing things that happens as the wave begins to curl and the year comes to an end is connecting to old friends. I was never a big Christmas card sender, but email and e-cards let me send a simple message to friends that I don’t see much from year to year. Our card is a simple one page PDF with a few pictures of us in some of the locales that we have visited in the past year. I can’t abide the “Christmas newsletter” but I do like to see pictures of old and new friends doing what they like to do. Keep it simple but keep in touch. My favorite new song of 2012 is James McMurtry’s Walk Between the Raindrops. Here is the chorus:

Stay alive inside,
don’t be a stranger
Keep a line open to
the folks back home
Don’t run and hide
when everything changes
Walk between the raindrops
dry as a bone

Go Seahawks! Happy New Year everyone!